Chastity

mother_of_fair_love1Prayer-a plan of life, the Sacraments, friendship. These are powerful ways to grow in the virtue of chastity. Do not be afraid to run away from temptations, but a healing of the heart and mind is also needed, especially in a society which has some very bad ideas about the human body and sexuality.

The image above is the image of our Lady, Mother of Fair Love. This beautiful statue was a gift from Saint Josemaria Escriva to the University of Navarre in Spain. Let us allow the Blessed Virgin Mary to cover us with her mantle of pure love.

Some good advice and wisdom from Saint Josemaria Escriva on Holy Purity.

What does the Catechism of the Catholic Church have to say about chastity?

“Chastity means the successful integration of sexuality within the person and thus the inner unity of man in his bodily and spiritual being. Sexuality, in which man’s belonging to the bodily and biological world is expressed, becomes personal and truly human when it is integrated into the relationship of one person to another, in the complete and lifelong mutual gift of a man and a woman.

The virtue of chastity therefore involves the integrity of the person and the integrality of the gift.” (2337)

“Whoever wants to remain faithful to his baptismal promises and resist temptations will want to adopt the means for doing so: self-knowledge, practice of an ascesis adapted to the situations that confront him, obedience to God’s commandments, exercise of the moral virtues, and fidelity to prayer. “Indeed it is through chastity that we are gathered together and led back to the unity from which we were fragmented into multiplicity.” (2340)

Here are some helpful resources for growing in the virtue of chastity.

Angelic Warfare Confraternity– It is a spiritual battle and we need all the help we can get. I do have faculties to enroll people in this spiritual family.

Integrity Restored -This is a helpful site for finding healing from struggle with pornography. They also have an excellent podcast. There is no fear here of addressing challenging issues.

Ten Ways to Win the Battle Against Porn-This link is to a page on a website called the Catholic Gentleman, so the tips might be more geared to men, but they are also helpful to women.

Weapons to break free–Same site as above, but different page, some very practical methods for healing and recovery.

Covenant Eyes-This is a powerful filter and accountability tool. It is helpful to have a server based software to help shield your own eyes and the eyes of your loved ones. Equally important is to have somebody who is an accountability partner. This site also has some excellent articles that are helpful for healing.

Bought with a Price–Bishop Emeritus Paul Loverde, of the Diocese of Arlington, has written an excellent and helpful pastoral letter on the challenges of pornography today.

Theology of the Body-Instead of bad books and websites, take up the challenge to

experience rehab of your mind. Read Pope Saint John Paul II’s Theology of the Body!243c02c5a517e783a89f5ba4a80f289f1

Courage Apostolate to help if you struggle with same sex attraction. Also they have some excellent resources if a loved one struggles with this attraction.

The Porn Effect: Struggling with an addiction or is somebody you love struggling? This site has some useful help.

 

A good talk on Jason Evert on homosexuality and the Catholic Church. He makes a good point: attractions do not define us. Divine filiation defines us!: